I know what you mean – some couches seem like they’re designed for showrooms, not real life. The harleson wheat living room set turned out to be the right choice for me. The armrests are at a comfortable height, and the seating feels spacious, not cramped. The fabric has a soft, textured feel that doesn’t get too hot or sticky like some materials do. Plus, it’s got a classic look that doesn’t go out of style. If you want something that feels good to actually use every day, this one delivers.